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How I Got Catfished by my Husband and fell miserably in-love with a mysterious stranger online. Part II

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Image credit: Pexels Things remained silent for a complete month. Charles never acted as though he knew something was up, and on my part, I tried to keep up with the pretense. But how long was I going to continue with that? The thing was that I lied to him, and he knew. The earlier things get sorted out, the better for us and our marriage. The anonymous messages didn’t stop either. The only difference was that I stopped replying to it. I knew that doing that would trigger his suspicions, but what was I meant to do? I couldn’t think of anything because my head was blank, and I was scared that doing the wrong thing would cost me my home. Most times, after he leave for work, I would sit by the mirror and break into tears. I felt the guilt eating deep into my soul and thoughts of how Charles might be feeling  killed me. He was definitely suffering emotionally but wasn’t ready to bring it up. One day, during breakfast, I finally decided to tell him the truth. I didn’t want to ...

How I Got Catfished by my Husband and fell miserably in-love with a mysterious man online.

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  Photo credit; Pexels Two years into my marriage, a mysterious package arrived, sent by someone who went by the name “Special Anonymous.” Inside the box were two stunning gifts: a brand-new iPhone and a dazzling diamond necklace. The sheer value of these items left me speechless, and I couldn’t bring myself to tell my husband. Each time I attempted to confess, my words evaporated into smiles. You see, my husband, Charles, was a wonderful man, and our two-year marriage had been filled with joy. However, a tiny issue began to cast a shadow over our otherwise blissful union. Charles, though financially capable, never thought to surprise me with gifts. Whenever I saw videos of other men showering their partners with affection and tokens of love, my heart ached. Charles was a man of routine and formality. Our conversations often felt as though I were speaking to my boss rather than my spouse. I yearned for a lighter, more playful marriage, one where we’d share silly moments and playful...

When He's Not Feeling It: The Warning Signs Your Relationship Is Over

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  1. He will not pay Attention to you anymore Within a relationship, the presence of attention is an indicator of its vitality. When your partner starts withdrawing the attention they once freely gave, it may be a signal that their feelings have changed. 2. Communication Breakdown Effective communication is a cornerstone of any lasting relationship. If your partner avoids conversations, fails to return your calls, or disregards your attempts to connect, it may signify a diminishing emotional connection. 3. Unrecognized effort and Appreciation In a healthy relationship, mutual appreciation and cherishing are crucial. If your partner has stopped expressing gratitude and joy for having you in their life, it could be an indication that something is amiss. 4. Lack of Quality Time When your partner consistently avoids spending time with you, neglects activities that used to bring you together, and seems to evade your company, it may point to a change in their feelings. 5. S3xua...